When a man ejaculates before he should, it's embarrassing for him and not fun for her. Here are seven things you can do to help you keep going for the long haul.
Relax
Often, performance anxiety causes men to ejaculate too soon. To make her more passionate, try oral sex, toys, fingers, and passionate kissing. If she's excited enough before they start making love, it won't take as long for her to reach orgasm.
First, take care of yourself.
When guys are too excited, they sometimes ejaculate too soon. Even the smallest thing sets them off a little too soon. Masturbating before the big event can help relieve some of the stress. Not right before, because it might be hard to get an erection right after. A few hours ahead of time should be enough.
Put on a condom.
Reducing sensitivity helps keep men from ejaculating too soon. Putting a rubber over the penis is one way to make it less sensitive. They can also help prevent STDs and unintended pregnancies, so why not use one to stop premature ejaculation? Don't wear more than one at a time because you think thicker is better. It isn't.
Other products that dull the senses
Topical anaesthetics in specially made creams can help numb the penis and put people with premature ejaculation at ease. But be careful. Don't numb your partner without her permission by accident. Once the cream has numbed the penis, wash it off. You could also use a condom to cover the cream. Just make sure the cream doesn't have anything in it that will weaken or break the condom.
Don't think about that.
Watch out for this one! If you don't think about the right thing, early ejaculation could be one of many problems. Some guys have found that self-inflicting pain on another part of their body, memorising math equations, or making mental pictures of ugly women has helped.
Stay away from booze and drugs.
Getting in touch with your body and feelings can help you stop ejaculating too soon. When your mind is in a different place, it's hard to tune in.
Get your work done.
Men can control when they ejaculate with the help of a few different techniques. Men can find and focus on the moments before the "point of no return" by mastering techniques like the "pinch" method and the "start-stop" method.
Don't stop having sex! Many men have been able to get rid of the embarrassing and annoying problem of premature ejaculation with these and other methods.
Check out my blog on premature ejaculation right now for more tips, tricks, and techniques that will help you last longer in bed and make your partner scream with delight at your new "power."
