You don't have to be like anyone else because they already are. Do you want to be exactly the same as your coworker? If the Creator wanted two people to work together who were exactly the same, He would have made a copy of the first person. If God had wanted to make another person just like your neighbour, He would have made two of them right away. He didn't clone anyone, so why would you? Each snowflake is unique. Creation is not the same as copying.
He didn't just copy an existing model; He made YOU from scratch. Why? Because He needs you just the way you are! Why try to be someone you're not?
Don't copy what others do. You should watch them and learn from them, but you shouldn't try to be like them. Learn from them, but then use what you've learned in your own life and continue on your own path. Since you're walking your own path, you can't follow someone else's steps, and no one else can walk your path for you. They go their own way, and you go yours.
Why did the person who made us all give us different fingerprints, ears, and noses? Wouldn't it have been easier for God to just use one mould to make all of us? One model; no differences, no comparisons. He was able to do it, but didn't. So what? He seems to want us to be different. He wants us to be unique. Definitely, this fact makes the game more fun. If all of the play's characters were the same, it wouldn't be very interesting to watch. He must like that we are all different. He needs us all to be different, for sure.
Since it's clear that everyone is different, why would you try to be like someone else? Why would you want to change how you look or how your body looks? Why not just be happy with yourself? I'm not just talking about looks; I'm also talking about skills. Character. Everybody is unique. While you wish you had skills you don't have, you don't use the skills you do have. This seems to be a waste of time, doesn't it? You have a unique set of skills that you should find out what they are and work on.
There is no such thing as luck. There is a reason for everything in the universe. You didn't get good at something by chance! It's also not a fluke that you don't have some skills you wish you did.
You were not meant to sing if you don't have a voice like a nightingale. You can do something else with your life based on the skills you do have and let someone who is better at singing do the singing. If you don't know how to act, you shouldn't try. If you are too fat to be a fashion model, you should start dreaming about something else.
Everyone has their own unique skills, which is another fact that can't be argued with. Make no mistake! Talents are not just things like being able to sing, act, dance, paint, write, or do well in sports. Your special skill could be your spontaneity, your enthusiasm, your connection with animals, your care for people with disabilities, your kindness, your ability to teach or speak in public, your love for your community, or your ability to solve problems. It could be your ability to love, your natural joy, your brilliance, your intelligence, your ability to learn new languages quickly, your beauty, your funny way of talking, making other people laugh, your kindness, your tenderness, and many other things. The list of possible skills is extremely, extremely long...
At the end of the day, you should just be yourself, right? To be yourself, you have to find out what makes you unique. Unique, you say? Others are also on the spot! A lot of people are kind or helpful. True, but what makes you special is how your best skills work together. Find out what your most important skills are and how you can combine them. The beauty of what makes you special is how your best skills work together and complement each other.
To try to be someone else would be a big waste of time. You are best when you are yourself. The world needs you just the way you are. Don't be afraid to be you. The more you let yourself be who you are, the more free you will feel. The more free you feel, the more likely you are to take risks. Daring and freedom work together to help you be your unique self in a celebration of life that keeps growing. Your life.
