Everyone wants to get better at whatever they do. If you already know a little about computers, you can take a class to learn more about how to use that computer and the software on them.
You have to do something to get to that level. It's not enough to just think about it. Even having a good attitude doesn't help. You can try it on your own, but only a few people will get to that level. Taking the following steps is the best way to reach your goals.
- Set your aim
- Do something
- Pay attention to results
- Change the way you think
Set your goal first.
Even though it sounds silly, you have to know what you want to achieve. In six months, where do you want to be? What are you trying to do? If you can, include a schedule as well. When would you like it done?
You are free to choose anything. For instance, you want to change your "I'm always late" behavior. You know that if you change this, it will make a lot of people happy. These changes will be obvious to your partner, your friends, and everyone else around you. The best part is that you can begin at any time. Because of this, you must
Do something.
When you do something, the way you act now will change. Maybe it's not the behavior you want right now, but it's a step in the right direction. As long as you do something, things will change in the end. When you do something, you start to see how the people around you act differently. Start by leaving your house two minutes earlier than you usually do. When you do
be aware
of how different people around you respond. Do they smile or say something nice about how early you are? You've been waiting for these changes. They agree with what you did. So keep doing what you're doing.
If you don't feel better after those two minutes, start scratching behind your ears. Choose to change what you were doing before. See what happens if you leave 5 minutes early. So you should
change how you feel.
to make happen what you want. You should remember your goal. Even if things don't get better right away, keep trying. You'll get something in the end.
When you see how your changes are helping, keep making more changes to get even more benefits. Until you reach your goal, you have to work on your attitude.
