What do you do when you think about money and it makes you feel bad? It doesn't always work to run away from these thoughts or just switch to positive ones.
Then we can use the pain to our advantage instead of running away from it.
Abraham-Hicks says that what we get as a result of our thoughts about how we feel is the same as how we feel. The stronger your feelings, the more likely you are to get what you're thinking about.
Which means that if you open your email and see that you haven't made any sales, you'll feel a lot of pain and wonder, "Why doesn't the money come?" It means that you keep putting yourself in situations where you feel like money isn't coming in.
Or, if you look at a pile of bills you need to pay or your credit card statements and think, "Why does the money keep going away? When will it start coming back?"
But let's make pain our best tool!:)
They say that you have a strong feeling and that something is very drawn to you. And the pain you feel is because you're not letting what you want come to you.
Then, let's look at it this way:
What we want WANT TO COME TO US. But we fight against it, so it doesn't get to us. So when we get an email that doesn't lead to a sale and feel pain, it's because MONEY WANTS TO COME TO US, but we don't let it. It's not the pain that keeps it from happening.
If you're a woman, you'll get the comparison to childbirth::) Grantly Dick-Read wrote about it. He said that when a woman is in labour, she usually only feels pain if she tries to stop the baby from coming out. She has known since she was young that labour hurts, so she tenses her muscles instead of letting them relax and stretch to let the baby out. That's the basis of all natural and painless ways to give birth, both new and old.
So, when you feel pain when you think about not having what you want, try to remember that the pain doesn't mean you hurt because you don't have it. It means that what you want wants to come to you, and your pain is only from resisting it.
Imagine that money really wants to come to you, but you shut your doors and windows, held the door shut, and yelled "NO!"
Please, please, let go, even if it's just one window. You'll feel better right away, and you'll finally be able to get what you want EASILY, QUICKLY, and with FUN.
To beautiful life experience!
