Women care more about anniversaries and parties than men do. They show how important the bonds they've made with other people are, and if they don't keep these days, it's the same as not keeping the relationship.
Men love giving expensive gifts to the women in their lives. But for the female of the species, it's not how generous you are that matters, but how thoughtful you are. It's not about being generous; it's about being thoughtful.
It's important to plan. When you run to the nearest store at the last minute to buy a cheap bouquet because you forgot the anniversary, you are basically making up for the fact that you didn't realise how important she was in your life. But ordering even the smallest posy or flowering plant ahead of time, along with a well-written note, a thoughtfully chosen card, and another small gift, goes a long way toward making her like you. You can choose from the many gifts that florists offer at this time of year and all year long, such as a stuffed animal, a box of chocolates, or a beautiful vase for your flowers (such as a glass vase).
The idea is to show that you thought about the gift, that you know your woman well, and that you know what she likes. She might have given you a hint about what she wants. Think about the things you've talked about with her in the past few weeks. Or choose something that has to do with her interests and hobbies. Chocolates and wine are always a good gift, especially if you plan to give it after a night out or a night in where you do all the cooking and cleaning up. And don't forget that tickets to a show are an option.
Any florist will also tell you that flowers have their own language, from the elegant simplicity of a single rose to the unbridled passion of a dozen roses, from the sweet simplicity of a posy to the extravagance of a bouquet. The orchid is a sign of strong desire, while the flowering plant is a good gift for women who like gestures but prefer gifts that last. You know her very well. Choose something you know will make her happy.
Lastly, you should think about when you should give the gift. If you do it too late in the day, it will look like you forgot or just thought of it at the last minute. Too soon, and it will be forgotten in the rush to get to work or drop the kids off at school. The best solution is to have the package sent to your partner's home or office around noon. Now is the time to order so you don't have to wait until the last minute.
So now is the time to pull out your credit card and call, because your reward is already on its way.
