For many couples, having children is the best thing that can happen in their relationship and the ultimate goal. Some of the couples may not be able to get pregnant on their own because of health problems. When this happens, the couple may choose to have a child through In Vitro Fertilization. For couples who decide to use in vitro fertilisation, the time before the fertilisation will be very process-oriented. There will be consultations, evaluations, forms, literature, and a lot of listening. At times, it might seem too much and scary.
As the male partner in the process, most of the work will be done with the female partner. To make the process as easy as possible for her, there are a few things to remember and a few things you can do to keep her spirits up and help her take the steps she needs to take to have a successful fertilisation.
You and your partner may find it hard to deal with the fact that you can't get pregnant on your own. Keep in mind, though, that even though it may not be a natural way to get pregnant, the end goal is still the same: a healthy child. You and your partner are just trying to increase the chances of a healthy and successful pregnancy. Talk about this with her and be open to how she feels.
- There will be a lot to learn about the process, so write things down and do your homework.
Some of the medicines that will be needed for the process will have to be given as injections. Offer to give the shots if your partner isn't comfortable doing it herself. Keep in mind that the injection sites will probably hurt a lot because she will have to get them done over and over again. A little love and care will keep her feeling confident and at ease. Also, a heating pad might help when her belly is hurting a lot.
- Your partner will be told to take certain medicines at certain times, and she will
need to see the doctor fairly often, and sometimes with very little warning. Make sure your schedule is as open as possible so you can help with transporting people and giving them medicine when you need to.
Some of the medicines your partner is taking could cause mood swings. She could be sitting at the table reading the paper one minute and crying about something completely different the next. Be ready, give her support, and keep in mind that her mood will go back to normal in time.
- Always keep in mind that you've already done the easy part!
When compared to natural fertilisation, in vitro fertilisation is not an easy process. But if you are careful, work well with others, and are willing to help out when it is needed, you can be active and helpful during the fertilisation period.
The information in this article is meant to teach, not to give medical advice or provide medical services. If you have a medical problem or think you might, you should call your doctor right away.
