Are you looking for that special someone right now? Your soulmate? Who Is Mr. or Miss.
Do you want to know where they are?
Don't be afraid! I'm not going to set you up with any of my friends (sorry, Johnno), give you the number of the local pick-up joint, or give you information about an online dating service.
But as someone whose relationship with his beautiful wife Helen is very loving and passionate, I might be able to help. (Let's hope that Helen reads this!)
So, here's what I think. If you understand these things and do what you need to do, I think you have a GREAT chance of finding your own "love of your life."
MASSIVELY IMPORTANT POINT:
You can't and won't find Mr. Right, ladies. Instead, be Miss Right, and Mr. Right will come to you.
You can't and won't find Miss Right, sir. Instead, be Mr. Right, and Miss Right will come to you.
Let me explain. No one is around. We attract people who fit with who we are at the moment.
If you're not getting the type of person you want in your life, it might be because you're not the type of person they want to be with. So, if you want to find your perfect match, you should become someone who people want to be with. The person in question will then come to you.
Your power to change and affect other people is limited. If you try to find the person of your dreams and make them like you, it will be a long and hard road. But if you try to get better, you have a much better chance of succeeding.
So how do you turn into this kind of person? How do you become Mr. Right or Miss Right so you can meet your soulmate?
Why not work on these three things to start?
- Find out how to be happy.
Realize that having this person in your life doesn't have to make you happy. "Happiness is increased by other people, but it does not depend on them."
If you aren't happy already, a relationship won't give you what you're missing. If you're happy already, a good relationship will make you even happier. So if you want to be happy, you won't find it in a relationship.
You need to stop thinking that happiness is "out there," in your partner or in the relationship you have with them. Happiness is something you can only find in yourself.
So, the first step to meeting Mr. or Mrs. Right is to work on being happy.
- Figure out how to love yourself.
You can't have a good relationship with someone until you can love and be loved without conditions. And the first step toward this goal is learning to love yourself. In a relationship, giving is more important than getting. How can you love someone if you don't love yourself? How can you love someone else the right way if you can't even love yourself? It can't happen.
Find out how to love yourself. Accept yourself for what you are: a perfect creation of God.
Stop looking for that one person who will make you whole, who will fill your life with joy, love, excitement, and passion, and who will help you "live happily ever after."
Instead, you should take charge of making the life you want. Bring happiness, love, adventure, and passion into your own life. Live happily ever after anyway. Have fun, laugh, and play. Learn, grow, and do everything you do with a lot of heart.
If you're happy, love yourself, and love life, you'll have a lot more to give to other people. You'll have changed into a great person. Things will go well for you. You'll make a lot of great friends, and you might even meet that special person you're looking for so hard right now.
The answer you're looking for doesn't lie with someone else, but with you. It's how you feel about yourself and what you think about yourself. It's having faith in love. It's the idea that you deserve to be loved. It is the idea that you are a good, strong, happy, and confident person. It's the idea that you have something great to give to other people.
Once you have this self-confidence or self-love, you're Mr. or Miss Right. Then and only then will you be able to find a magical relationship.
The hardest part is making up your mind to do it. From then on, it's easy. Don't let the task ahead of you stress you out. Every day, give yourself a chance to grow a little bit. Have faith in the process and have fun with it.
It's up to you. You can find Mr. or Mrs. Right here. Pick to be that person right now. Have fun. Love yourself. And enjoy living. It's worth your time.
